'There is no realistic way I can continue to socialize a 100% outdoor semi-feral cat and take care of a newborn at the same time': Pregnant cat lover torn as affectionate stray wants in, but struggles to add pawrent to new parent responsibilities

Pixie, once a semi-feral spitfire, has become a total sweetheart. Thanks to the care of a very pregnant pawrent, she went from skittish and hissing to affectionate and crying at the door for hours, hoping to come inside. Over the past six to seven weeks, Pixie's been fed daily, treated for fleas, and given vet care. All while living her best outdoor life with ample shade, treats, and even a cooling pad (which she hilariously refused to use).

Now, with just five weeks until a newborn arrives, the caretaker is facing a real dilemma: should she let Pixie inside or keep her outdoors? While Pixie's transformation is heartwarming, she's still easily startled, and no one knows if she's litter trained. The spare room that could've been a temporary cat haven is now a nursery, and managing a baby and a not-fully-socialized cat seems nearly impossible.

The guilt is real. Pixie has clearly learned to trust again, but this pawrent is also preparing for a major life change. It's a tough call between opening the door and protecting her peace during a delicate time. 

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